Sermon 31st December – Reed December 31, 2006
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1 Samuel 2.18-20, 26; Colossians 3.12-17; Luke 2.41-52
Those of you who read my letter last month in The Diary will know that I talked about one of my favourite verses in the Bible from Luke chapter two, words uttered by Mary after the visit of the shepherds to the baby Jesus: Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart.
Mary must have had a lot of pondering to do. What an amazing nine months she had had.
First, she meets an angel – not an everyday experience, even for people in the Bible. The angel has that amazing message for her that she is to have a baby. And that this baby will be great and be called the Son of the Most High, and be a king, reigning over Jacob’s house for ever.
And, then, she’s told that she’s not the only one to be giving birth in the near future. Her relative Elizabeth, an elderly woman, is also to have a baby; Elizabeth whom everyone believed to be barren – a source of great shame for people in biblical times. Much to ponder. And the story continues, as we all know. Mary’s baby is born, away from home, and placed in a manger because there was room nowhere else. And this humble girl and her husband and baby were visited by shepherds, who had also been spoken to by angels. It’s not surprising that Mary started pondering and reflecting when so much happened to her in such a short space of time. We don’t know much about what happened over the next decade or so. Matthew tells us that wise men visited the holy family and Luke tells us the stories of Jesus’s naming and circumcision and the meetings with Simeon and Anna, but that is pretty much it, until the story we heard in today’s Gospel reading. Presumably Mary kept pondering and reflecting. Luke tells us that the child Jesus grew and became strong, that he was filled with wisdom and that God’s favour was with him. I’m speculating a little now but I assume that as Jesus was growing Mary and Joseph saw him very much as their child. He lived with them and they cared for him, and, because we are not told anything dramatic about Jesus’s childhood, I think we can assume fairly safely that it was a pretty normal childhood for the child of a Jewish artisan of the period. Mary probably did ponder the events of Jesus’s birth from time to time as he grew, but I imagine that most of her life was focused on keeping home for Joseph and her small son. But today we get another snapshot of Mary pondering and reflecting. “His mother treasured all these things in her heart.” She may well have been reminded of the unusual circumstances of his birth as she reflected on this episode in the temple. Jesus was 12, not far off the age of adulthood for Jewish boys. To our modern ears, it seems shocking that parents of a 12-year-old did not know where he was for four whole days. It was only after a day’s travelling that they realised he wasn’t there, and then it took them another three days to find him. And then, in typical teenage fashion, some things, it seems, never change, Jesus can’t be bothered with welcoming his anxious parents, but greets them with a gentle rebuke – did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?
It seems that, at this point, Jesus has a far better understanding of who he really is than his parents. And Mary continues to store up her experiences and thoughts about who Jesus was. What did she have to ponder after this event? There were Jesus’s strange words about being in his Father’s house – did she recall those words from long ago about his being the Son of the Most High? There was the fact that he was with the religious teachers, clearly holding his own, and doing more than that since all who heard him were amazed at his understanding. He had been asking questions of the rabbis, but also giving answers of his own. At this point, Mary had to begin to rethink who he was. And, to a certain extent, that’s something that all parents have to do. As a child grows and matures and becomes more at ease with his or her own identity, parents have to let go of their ideas about who the child is and allow them to be the people they have been created to be by God. Mary’s pondering must have led her to wonder who this child really was. She realised that he wasn’t exactly the person she had thought he was. And we too are asked to ponder and reflect on our relationship with the Christ-child. If Mary, who knew Jesus as intimately as any human has ever done, needed time and space to reflect and ponder on who he really was, how much more will we need to do so.
When we lose something, finding it again may well involve some kind of surprise. Tom Wright, Bishop of Durham, suggests in his Luke for Everyone that part of what Luke was doing in his Gospel was writing for people who had some idea of who Jesus was, but then find he is more elusive than they had first thought.
When Mary and Joseph finally found Jesus, he didn’t give them the response they were expecting. He hadn’t been worried by his separation from his parents and he didn’t even seem that pleased to see them when they found him. They thought they knew him and they had to reappraise what they knew.
And our relationship with Jesus is also like that. If we never reappraise who we think Jesus is, our faith will not grow and develop. Jesus will surprise us. If we ever get to the point when we think we really know him, we may then discover that he’s not where we thought. We may look around and see that we have left him behind or that he has raced on ahead of us. Discipleship is, after all, not about following a strict set of rules and regulations but about following a person, and we cannot control the thoughts and actions of others.
Mary and Joseph assumed, when they left Jerusalem, that Jesus was with them. They took his presence for granted. Do we do that with Jesus? Do we assume that when we go off and do our own thing, he is there beside us? When Mary and Joseph realised they had lost Jesus, they turned back from what they were doing and went to look for him. At those times in our lives, do we care enough about Jesus to do just that? When it seems as if he is far from us, do we search him out or do we just allow ourselves to drift away from his presence? How do we search him out? Mary and Joseph took a long time to discover that he was in the temple. And yet, to those of us who know the story’s ending, it seems an obvious place for him to be. Where do we go when we want to renew our acquaintance with Jesus? We have many ways and helps. We have prayer and Scripture. We have worship and fellowship with other Christians. We have the sacraments and music. We have so many things to point us to God and to Christ if we do but look. And it may well take some time and pondering when we find him again. We may discover that perhaps one of the reasons we took so long to find him is that we were looking in the wrong place or for the wrong sort of Jesus.
If Mary and Joseph who lived with him day in and day out took four days to find him, it’s not surprising that we too may discover he’s not always where we think he should be or doing what we think he should be doing.
But the one thing we do know is that, wherever we find him, Jesus will be doing his Father’s work. Our challenge is to join him in that.
Sermon 31st December – Reed December 31, 2006
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1 Samuel 2.18-20, 26; Colossians 3.12-17; Luke 2.41-52
Those of you who read my letter last month in The Diary will know that I talked about one of my favourite verses in the Bible from Luke chapter two, words uttered by Mary after the visit of the shepherds to the baby Jesus: Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart.
Mary must have had a lot of pondering to do. What an amazing nine months she had had.
First, she meets an angel – not an everyday experience, even for people in the Bible. The angel has that amazing message for her that she is to have a baby. And that this baby will be great and be called the Son of the Most High, and be a king, reigning over Jacob’s house for ever.
And, then, she’s told that she’s not the only one to be giving birth in the near future. Her relative Elizabeth, an elderly woman, is also to have a baby; Elizabeth whom everyone believed to be barren – a source of great shame for people in biblical times.
Much to ponder.
And the story continues, as we all know. Mary’s baby is born, away from home, and placed in a manger because there was room nowhere else. And this humble girl and her husband and baby were visited by shepherds, who had also been spoken to by angels.
It’s not surprising that Mary started pondering and reflecting when so much happened to her in such a short space of time.
We don’t know much about what happened over the next decade or so. Matthew tells us that wise men visited the holy family and Luke tells us the stories of Jesus’s naming and circumcision and the meetings with Simeon and Anna, but that is pretty much it, until the story we heard in today’s Gospel reading.
Presumably Mary kept pondering and reflecting. Luke tells us that the child Jesus grew and became strong, that he was filled with wisdom and that God’s favour was with him.
I’m speculating a little now but I assume that as Jesus was growing Mary and Joseph saw him very much as their child. He lived with them and they cared for him, and, because we are not told anything dramatic about Jesus’s childhood, I think we can assume fairly safely that it was a pretty normal childhood for the child of a Jewish artisan of the period.
Mary probably did ponder the events of Jesus’s birth from time to time as he grew, but I imagine that most of her life was focused on keeping home for Joseph and her small son.
But today we get another snapshot of Mary pondering and reflecting. “His mother treasured all these things in her heart.”
She may well have been reminded of the unusual circumstances of his birth as she reflected on this episode in the temple. Jesus was 12, not far off the age of adulthood for Jewish boys. To our modern ears, it seems shocking that parents of a 12-year-old did not know where he was for four whole days. It was only after a day’s travelling that they realised he wasn’t there, and then it took them another three days to find him.
And then, in typical teenage fashion, some things, it seems, never change, Jesus can’t be bothered with welcoming his anxious parents, but greets them with a gentle rebuke – did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?
It seems that, at this point, Jesus has a far better understanding of who he really is than his parents. And Mary continues to store up her experiences and thoughts about who Jesus was.
What did she have to ponder after this event? There were Jesus’s strange words about being in his Father’s house – did she recall those words from long ago about his being the Son of the Most High?
There was the fact that he was with the religious teachers, clearly holding his own, and doing more than that since all who heard him were amazed at his understanding. He had been asking questions of the rabbis, but also giving answers of his own.
At this point, Mary had to begin to rethink who he was. And, to a certain extent, that’s something that all parents have to do. As a child grows and matures and becomes more at ease with his or her own identity, parents have to let go of their ideas about who the child is and allow them to be the people they have been created to be by God.
Mary’s pondering must have led her to wonder who this child really was. She realised that he wasn’t exactly the person she had thought he was.
And we too are asked to ponder and reflect on our relationship with the Christ-child. If Mary, who knew Jesus as intimately as any human has ever done, needed time and space to reflect and ponder on who he really was, how much more will we need to do so.
When we lose something, finding it again may well involve some kind of surprise. Tom Wright, Bishop of Durham, suggests in his Luke for Everyone that part of what Luke was doing in his Gospel was writing for people who had some idea of who Jesus was, but then find he is more elusive than they had first thought.
When Mary and Joseph finally found Jesus, he didn’t give them the response they were expecting. He hadn’t been worried by his separation from his parents and he didn’t even seem that pleased to see them when they found him.
They thought they knew him and they had to reappraise what they knew. And our relationship with Jesus is also like that. If we never reappraise who we think Jesus is, our faith will not grow and develop. Jesus will surprise us.
If we ever get to the point when we think we really know him, we may then discover that he’s not where we thought. We may look around and see that we have left him behind or that he has raced on ahead of us. Discipleship is, after all, not about following a strict set of rules and regulations but about following a person, and we cannot control the thoughts and actions of others.
Mary and Joseph assumed, when they left
Jerusalem, that Jesus was with them. They took his presence for granted. Do we do that with Jesus? Do we assume that when we go off and do our own thing, he is there beside us?
When Mary and Joseph realised they had lost Jesus, they turned back from what they were doing and went to look for him.
At those times in our lives, do we care enough about Jesus to do just that? When it seems as if he is far from us, do we search him out or do we just allow ourselves to drift away from his presence?
How do we search him out? Mary and Joseph took a long time to discover that he was in the temple. And yet, to those of us who know the story’s ending, it seems an obvious place for him to be.
Where do we go when we want to renew our acquaintance with Jesus? We have many ways and helps. We have prayer and Scripture. We have worship and fellowship with other Christians. We have the sacraments and music. We have so many things to point us to God and to Christ if we do but look.
And it may well take some time and pondering when we find him again. We may discover that perhaps one of the reasons we took so long to find him is that we were looking in the wrong place or for the wrong sort of Jesus.
If Mary and Joseph who lived with him day in and day out took four days to find him, it’s not surprising that we too may discover he’s not always where we think he should be or doing what we think he should be doing.
But the one thing we do know is that, wherever we find him, Jesus will be doing his Father’s work. Our challenge is to join him in that.
Letter from Sarah – January 2007 December 31, 2006
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Being Creative
I wonder what New Year’s resolutions you are making this year. Mine always seem to be the same: lose weight, get fit, meet up with those friends I’ve not seen for a while and generally live a better life.
This year, I’m going to try something different. I want to make 2007 the year when I found time to be creative. I think we all, whatever our gifts and skills, have something within us that longs to be creative. Often this side of ourselves – unless we are professional artists, musicians, actors, cooks, designers and so on – becomes submerged and trapped within us because we don’t give it free rein.
I think we all have within us something of the creative power of God. To be human means to share many of God’s characteristics. People of all religions see God as creator. There are so many ways in which to be creative: gardening, painting, cooking, acting, making music, dancing, writing, drawing, learning a language, pottery and even praying.
Many people see prayer as confined to talking to God, usually asking for something – please make Auntie Flo better, please help me to get this new job – but for me prayer is about a relationship with God which has many facets, and I can turn my poetry or dancing, singing or drawing into an expression of what I wish to communicate. It can become an expression of my deepest longings for God.
But, whether we believe in God or not, I think we can all grow through being creative. It’s not always easy at the start. I remember a counselling-skills course I was on where we were left with a pile of art materials and told to make a picture that told something about the story of our lives. At the outset I found it very difficult. I struggled to begin at all. I was used to reading and writing but not to expressing myself in other ways. But, once I stopped worrying about how difficult it all was, and just got on with making something, it became a liberating experience.
There is a lot of pain and destruction worldwide, but being creative can bring healing. I think of the youth orchestra founded by Daniel Barenboim and Edward Said which brings together Palestinians and Israelis or Pimlico opera which goes into a prison each year and helps inmates to perform an opera. Both these projects and many others bring amazing results.
So, why don’t you join me this year in picking up your paints or dusting down your cook books – let’s be creative.
Sermon 24 December Reed December 27, 2006
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St Mary’s, Reed
Christmas Eve 2006
Isaiah 9.2-7; Titus 2.11-14; Luke 2.1-14
How did last Christmas change your life? We have all come here this evening to sing some carols, say some prayers, to hear the story of the first Christmas and, above all, to celebrate the birth of Christ.
What does that celebration mean for us? If we are truly celebrating Christmas, our celebrations need to go on beyond Twelfth Night. Carrying the message of Christmas into our lives the rest of the year is one way in showing that our celebrations are real and not just an excuse for a family-get-together, eating and drinking too much and a few days off work. There’s a story about a young girl who went with a group of her family and friends to see the Christmas lights in London. At one church, they stopped and went inside to look more closely at a beautiful nativity scene. “Isn’t that beautiful?” said the little girl’s grandmother. “Look at all the animals, Mary, Joseph and the baby Jesus.” “Yes, Grandma,” replied the granddaughter. “It is really nice. But there is only one thing that bothers me. Isn’t baby Jesus ever going to grow up? He’s the same size he was last year.” Is baby Jesus for us the same size as last year or have we allowed our understanding and our love for him to grow over the past year? One of the wonderful messages of Christmas is that of God’s grace. But sadly it’s a message that gets distorted time and time again.
We often hear parents telling their children how Father Christmas won’t come unless they’re good. I remember talking to the parent of a two year-old in my last parish, a two year-old with whom there had been lots of dinner-table battles. But Father Christmas had worked wonders this dad said, we just tell her that he won’t come if she doesn’t eat her food. She’s never eaten so well, he said.
And sometimes this idea gets put on to Jesus too. The idea that Jesus is only for good people. There’s a story about a little boy called Sam. It was coming up to Christmas, and Sam asked his mum if he could have a new bike. She told him that the best idea would be to write to Father Christmas. But Sam, with his school nativity play in mind, said he’d prefer to write to the baby Jesus.
Sam went to his room and wrote: “Dear Jesus, I have been a very good boy this year and I would like to have a bike for Christmas.” But he wasn’t very happy when he read it again. Something wasn’t quite right.
So he decided to try again. This time he wrote: “Dear Jesus, I’m a good boy most of the time, and I would like a bike for Christmas.” He read it but still wasn’t happy.
So, he tried a third version: “Dear Jesus, I could be a good boy if I tried hard, and especially if I had a new bike.” He read that one too, but he still wasn’t satisfied.So, he decided to go out for a walk while he thought about a better approach. After a short time he passed a house with a small statue of the Virgin Mary in the front garden. He crept in, stuffed the statue under his coat, hurried home and hid it under the bed.
Then he wrote this letter: “Dear Jesus, if you want to see your mother again, you’d better send me a new bike.”
It’s so easy to put our human values on God. Sam clearly linked being good with Jesus. But God didn’t say: “I’ll send my Son when the world is good enough or when enough people worship me.” God didn’t say “I’ll start loving them when I see some evidence that they love me.” God saw that people didn’t love so God loved them even more.
I was talking to a teacher this past week about how different attitudes about learning exist. There was a time when it was important in schools to tell children what they were getting wrong – and there are some people who will always point out the wrong things, either things other people have not got right or they themselves – but not to praise them when they did well, in case they became too big-headed. The theory is that we learn through having our mistakes pointed out to us. Nowadays, schools are much more keen to accentuate the positive in children. Teachers will praise what has been done well before they point out what needs putting right. There is a sense that all children are good at something and that those who are not academically bright can still shine in other ways. I think we probably need a bit of both – we do learn from our mistakes, but a child who is only castigated for getting things wrong and never encouraged will not grow or learn happily.
Many people seem to categorise God as being of the first type only – the sort of person, if we can call God a person, who will lay down hard and fast rules and castigate us when we get it wrong. And over the years the Church has perpetuated this myth that we can only be acceptable to God, if we do the right things and live the right sort of life.
But, if we look more closely at Christ, we see that God’s love is not confined to those who have got it right. Think of the circumstances of that first Christmas. Where was Jesus born? Certainly not in a royal palace but in a humble stable. Who were his first visitors? Humble, dirty, probably smelly, shepherds, not the faithful religious people who knew they had it right.
It’s so easy to impose our human values on God. If we’re honest, we want God to approve of the people of whom we approve and not of the others. We know what God ought to do and then we give up on God when that doesn’t happen.
A baby in a manger is cute and cuddly but if we leave the baby there, the same size as he was last Christmas, we’re missing something vital about God’s love. We’re missing the fact that God’s love is big enough for us all: rich and poor, good and bad. I think one good thing to have come out of the tragedy of the murdered women in
Suffolk is that people have had to face the fact that they are not just nameless prostitutes whom we can ignore or write off as bad women, but real people, people who have families and friends, people who have worth. Yes, perhaps their lives have become rather distorted, often because of the grip of drug addiction, yes, perhaps their values are far removed from our own, but the message of God is that they are not worthless.
“The grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all, training us to renounce impiety and worldly passions, and in the present age to live lives that are self-controlled, upright and godly” – words from our epistle reading.
But, look where those words start – with the grace of God. It doesn’t say that God’s grace will come once people are pious and self-controlled, but that God’s grace will transform people.
So, I challenge you – and myself – this Christmas to let our vision of the Christ-child grow that little bit bigger so that next year we can say our Christmas celebrations had an effect on us well beyond Twelfth Night.
Letter from Sarah, December, 2006 December 11, 2006
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Treasured words
“But Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart.” (Luke 2.19).
It’s a little known verse but one of my favourites.
Mary has given birth to Jesus and has been visited by the shepherds. They have told her about how they had been visited by an angel, who had brought them good news of a Saviour’s birth, a Saviour who would be found in a manger. And they told of how they had seen not only one angel but “a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying: ‘Glory to God in the highest heaven and on earth peace among those whom he favours.’”
The Bible tells how those who heard the shepherd’s story were amazed. We can imagine them having a good old gossip about what they’d heard, chatting it over, wondering what it all meant. I can’t believe that the shepherds weren’t changed by their encounter with the Christ-child. I’m sure all those who knew them could see a change. We’re told that they went home praising and glorifying God.
When amazing and wonderful things happen to us, it’s good to be able share them with other people. We often want to tell the world when something good happens. It’s a natural human reaction.
But Mary, Jesus’s mother, didn’t do that. She stored up what she’d heard and pondered it. How often do we ponder the things of God and what they mean to us?
Advent is a time of preparation. It’s a time when we prepare for Christmas. But I’m not just thinking of all the present-buying, card-writing, food shopping and so on that we feel has to be done before we can celebrate.
It’s good to have parties and meals together. After all, Christmas is a great celebration. But we don’t need any of those things in order to prepare for Christmas. Behind all the glitz and glamour is a profound mystery on which we do well to ponder. We will never be able to fully understand the depths of God’s love while we remain on this earth, but we can begin to know more fully what it means for us when we take time to reflect and pray.
So let’s join in the celebrations of the shepherds this year, but let’s also follow Mary’s example and take time to treasure what we know of God and to ponder it our hearts.
with best wishes
Sarah
Forthcoming Readings for Services Jan to March 2007 December 10, 2006
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BARKWAY, BUCKLAND, REED AND BARLEY READINGS: JANUARY 2007
| Barkway | Barley | Reed | Buckland | |
| 7 January Epiphany |
Isaiah 60.1-6 Psalm 72.10-15 Matthew 2.1-12 |
Isaiah 60.1-6 Psalm 72.10-15 Ephesians 3.1-12 Matthew 2.1-12 |
Isaiah 60.1-6 Psalm 72.10-15 Ephesians 3.1-12 Matthew 2.1-12 |
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| 14 January Epiphany 2 |
Isaiah 62.1-5 Psalm 36.5-10 1 Corinthians 12.1-11 John 2.1-11 |
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| 21 January Epiphany 3 |
Neh’miah 8.1-3, 5-6, 8-10 Psalm 19.1-6 1 Corinthians 12.12-31a Luke 4.14-21 |
AB (or other) to confirm | Neh’miah 8.1-3, 5-6, 8-10 Psalm 19.1-6 1 Corinthians12.12-31a Luke 4.14-21 |
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| 28 January Candlemas |
Malachi 3.1-5 Psalm 24 Hebrew 2.14-18 Luke 2.22-40 |
Malachi 3.1-5 Psalm 24 Hebrew 2.14-18 Luke 2.22-40 |
AB (or other) to confirm |
BARKWAY, BUCKLAND, REED AND BARLEY READINGS: FEBRUARY2007
| Barkway | Barley | Reed | Buckland | |
| 4 February 3 before Lent |
Isaiah 6.1-8 Psalm 138 Luke 5.1-11 |
Isaiah 6.1-8Psalm 138 1 Corinthians 15.1-11 Luke 5.1-11 |
Isaiah 6.1-8 Psalm 138 1 Corinthians 15.1-11 Luke 5.1-11 |
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| 11 February 2 before Lent |
Genesis 2.4b-9, 15-end Psalm 65 Revelation 4 Luke 8.22-25 |
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| 18 February Next before Lent |
Exodus 34.29-end Psalm 99 2 Corinthians 3.12-4.2 Luke 9.28-36 |
AB (or other) to confirm | Exodus 34.29-end Psalm 99 2 Corinthians 3.12-4.2Luke 9.28-36 |
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| 25 February Lent 1 |
Deuteronomy 26.1-11 Psalm 91.1-11 Romans 10.8b-13 Luke 4.1-13 |
Deuteronomy 26.1-11 Psalm 91.1-11 Romans 10.8b-13 Luke 4.1-13 |
NB Ash Wednesday Isaiah 58.1-12; Psalm 51.1-8; 2
Corinthians 5.20b-6.10;
John 8.1-11
BARKWAY, BUCKLAND, REED AND BARLEY READINGS: MARCH 2007
| Barkway | Barley | Reed | Buckland | |
| 4 March Lent 2 |
Genesis 15.1-12,17-18Psalm 27 Luke 13.31-end |
Genesis 15.1-12,17-18 Psalm 27 Philippians 3.17-4.1 Luke 13.31-end |
Genesis 15.1-12,17-18 Psalm 27 Philippians 3.17-4.1 Luke 13.31-end |
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| 11 March Lent 3 |
Isaiah 55.1-9 Psalm 63.1-9 1 Corinthians 10.1-13 Luke 13.1-9 |
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| 18 MarchMothering Sunday* | Exodus 20.1-10 Psalm 34.11-20 2 Corinthians 1.3-7 Luke 2.33-35 |
Exodus 20.1-10 Psalm 34.11-20 2 Corinthians 1.3-7 Luke 2.33-35 |
Exodus 20.1-10 Psalm 34.11-20 2 Corinthians 1.3-7 Luke 2.33-35 |
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| 25 March Lent 5 Passion Sunday |
Isaiah 43.16-21 Psalm 126 Philippians 3.4b-14 John 12.1-8 |
Isaiah 43.16-21 Psalm 126 Philippians 3.4b-14 John 12.1-8 |
AB (or other) to confirm |
*subject to change depending on who leads these services