Sermon Barley 8th November 2009 – Remembrance Sunday November 9, 2009
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Micah 4.1-5; Matthew 5.43-48
The Rev’d Sarah Hillman
I wonder what words you would use to describe war.
Get ideas.
Throughout the ages, people who have been caught up in war have written about their experiences in prose and poetry. The First World War, a war like no other, in which millions were killed led many to write poems. Some of those who fought became famous for their writing – Wilfred Owen, Siegfried Sasson, Rupert Brooke, John McRae. Others caught the mood of the time, and though they did not fight, still used poetry to express deeply held feelings about war.
Laurence Binyon’s words are used the world over on Remembrance Day. We have used them already in this service, but what many of you will not have heard is the complete poem from which they came.
Binyon was moved by the number of casualties early in the War, and though not a soldier himself, he penned these words.
With proud thanksgiving, a mother for her children,
England mourns for her dead across the sea.
Flesh of her flesh they were, spirit of spirit,
fallen in the cause of the free.
Solemn the drums thrill: Death august and royal
sings sorrow up into immortal spheres.
There is music in the midst of desolation
and a glory that shines upon our tears.
They went with songs to the battle, they were young,
straight of limb, true of eye, steady and aglow.
They were staunch to the end against odds uncounted,
they fell with their faces to the foe.
They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old;
age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
we will remember them.
They mingle not with laughing comrades again;
they sit no more at familiar tables of home;
they have no lot in our labour of the day-time;
they sleep beyond England’s foam.
But where our desires are and our hopes profound,
felt as a well-spring that is hidden from sight,
to the innermost heart of their own land they are known
as the stars are known to the night;
As the stars that shall be bright when we are dust,
moving in marches upon the heavenly plain,
as the stars that are starry in the time of our darkness,
to the end, to the end, they remain.
The poem reminds us that, so often, the casulaties of war are young – back then young men, now too young women. Lives that end too early because of carnage and slaughter. Binyon did see the horror for himself later. He was too old to sign up as a soldier but in 1916 went out to the battlefields as a Red Cross volunteer.
Wilfred Owen’s poem Anthem for Doomed Youth echoes that thought in its title, and expresses the agonies of the loss of life.
What passing-bells for these who die as cattle?
Only the monstrous anger of the guns.
Only the stuttering rifles rapid rattle
can patter out their hasty orisons.
No mockeries now for them; no prayers nor bells;
nor any voice of mourning save the choirs, the shrill, demented choirs of wailing shells;
and bugles calling for them from sad shires.
What candles may be held to speed them all?
Not in the hands of boys but in their eyes
shall shine the holy glimmers of goodbyes.
The pallor of girls’ brows shall be their pall;
their flowers the tenderness of patient minds,
and each slow dusk a drawing-down of blinds.
Back in the First World War, the bodies remained where they fell, later to be buried far from home. Rupert Brooke’s poem The Soldier reminds us of this
If I should die, think only this of me,
that there’s some corner of a foreign field
that is for ever England.
In the past year, the last three British survivors of the battlefields of the First World War died. They were men who had lived through immense changes in their lives, who had coped with the horrors of what was supposed to have been the war to end all wars. Society had changed for ever.
Soldiers who have died are no longer left abroad, but brought home with ceremony and dignity.
But some things haven’t changed. Wars come and go. We heard last week that more British troops have been lost in 2009 than in any year since 1982 and the Falklands War. It seems that there will never be a war to end all wars.
Today soldiers are still writing poetry to express their feelings about conflict. There are echoes in them of the sentiments we find in the earlier verses.
Here is A Soldier’s Plea by Bradley Shane.
If only all the dead could cry out
in a single roar
and say don’t send a mother’s son
to die a death in war.
They’d say look at how we lay
without life or limb
the bullet that tore our breast so wide
has caused our eyes to dim.
The flash of a musket,
the crack of a bullet’s speed,
a small piece of death is sent
to splinter bone and bleed.
The cannon sends a rain of death
of steel and grit and bone.
Pay no heed to the dying man
or take pity on his moan
The orders are always the same
move forward, boys, make haste:
a yard of ground a league today
don’t think of the horror and the waste.
The war boys, the war’s for all
God’s on the side that’s right.
But the devil owns the battlefield
when you hear the cries at night
A drummer rolls a steady beat,
a bugle plays a mournful tune,
a sword is dipped in honour
for the mother’s son who died too soon.
War begins when dialogue fails. Harry Patch and Henry Allingham, two of the three veteran soldiers who died this year had strong words about war. Patch said: “It wasn’t worth it. No war is worth it. No war is worth the loss of a couple of lives let alone thousands. T’isn’t worth it.”
And Allingham’s words: “War’s stupid. Nobody wins. You might as well talk first. You have to talk last anyway.”
The hard thing about dialogue is that it needs both sides to participate and that rarely happens.
War leave broken people, devastated lands and smashed hopes and dreams. And that hasn’t changed. Harry Patch said before he died: “It’s right that we should think about the fighting men of the Great War. But that still goes for our boys who are sent off to battle now, in places like Afghanistan and Iraq. Let’s remember them too. They come back bloodied and broken, just the same.”
This is a sermon, but there’s one thing I haven’t yet mentioned: God. Where is God in the battlefields? Many people in the First World War had their faith challenged, and I’m sure many do today. But many also gain hope and courage from faith.
In an interview, Anthony Feltham-White, an army chaplain in Afghanistan, says this: “I am constantly humbled and amazed by the extraordinary courage and commitment shown by our soldiers in this most hostile of environments.
“Our services and Bible studies are always well attended, but what impresses me are the myriad conversations I have with soldiers in the most extraordinary places. Most of my battalion wear a cross on their dog-tags, and are constantly asking me to pray for them and with them; some are even baptised while out here. There is an old expression that there is no such thing as an atheist in a foxhole. In many ways it still holds true.”
“A six-month operational tour uses all my reserves of everything. Immediately I think of ‘footsteps in the sand’ as I feel the arms of God carrying me every step of the way. Being among and ministering to the young men and women of our Armed Forces is a remarkable privilege and extraordinarily fulfilling, but on operations it is a roller-coaster ride. I’m on my knees by the end – but perhaps that is the best place to be.”
God is right there in the midst of battle. God does not take sides in war, for God’s aim is peace. It is not God who fights but human beings. What God sees is his beloved people of every creed and colour, destroying each other and the world.
The six moral values of the army – selfless commitment, respect, loyalty, integrity, discipline and courage – are all values dear to God.
Anthony Feltham-White also says in his interview: “My favourite part of the Bible is the Sermon on the Mount. It’s all there in those three chapters in Matthew. If only we all took to heart what Jesus is explaining, then our soldiers would not have to be fighting and dying in this place.”
And what are those words. We heard some of them earlier.
Jesus said: You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbour and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.
This Week in the Benefice 9th – 15th November 2009 November 9, 2009
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Monday 9th November
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
12 noon Deanery Chapter with Archdeacon Trevor Jones, Buntingford Church
Tuesday 10th November
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Discover Sunday planning meeting, 2 Stallibrass Mews, Barkway
Wednesday 11th November
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
12.30 Deanery cluster meeting, Great Hormead Rectory
Thursday 12th November
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary’s, Reed
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Friday 13th November
9.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. Book Sale St Mary’s, Reed
Saturday 14th November
9.00 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
9.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. Book Sale St Mary’s, Reed
10.00 a.m. Working Party, Barkway Church
Sunday 15th November
9.00 a.m. Parish Holy Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 a.m. Parish Communion + Baptism of Katie Maddison, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. All-age service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
THE COMING MONTH
(Morning Prayer usually takes place each day: Monday and Tuesday in Barkway; Wednesday and Saturday in Barley and Thursday in Reed)
Monday 16th November
8.00 p.m. North Buntingford Prayer Group, Aylwins, Roe Green
Tuesday 17th November.
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Thursday 19th November
8.00 p.m. Deanery Synod, Buntingford church
Saturday 21st November
5.00 p.m. Friends of Barkway Moonlight Market
Sunday 22nd November
9 a.m. Parish Holy Communion, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
10.30 a.m. Parish Communion + Junior Church, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 a.m. BCP Matins, St Mary’s, Reed
Monday 23rd November
6.00 p.m. Barley PCC, venue TBA
Tuesday 24th November
7.15 p.m. Barley VC First School Governors Meeting, School
Wednesday 25th November
North Buntingford Group Council, Barkway Rectory
Thursday 26th November
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Saturday 28th November
10.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. From Here to Eternity – a study day on worship, Cathedral and Abbey Church of St Alban Cost £10.00 more details from Sarah
Sunday 29th November
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion, St Andrew’s, Buckland
2.30 p.m. Baptism of Victoria Stevenson, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. Discover Sunday – Advent, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Tuesday 1st December
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Wednesday 2nd December
7.30 p.m. Barkway VA First School Governors meeting, Flint House, Barkway
Thursday 3rd December
10.30 a.m. Holy Communion at Margaret House
7.45p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Saturday 5th December
11.00 a.m. – 4.00 p.m. Children’s activity day – St Nicholas – St Margaret of Antioch and school, Barley
Friends of Reed Church Christmas Supper
Sunday 6th December
9.00 a.m. Holy Communion (said) St Mary’s, Reed
10.30 a.m. Special St Nicholas service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
11.30 a.m. Christmas Market, Barley Town House
6.00 p.m. BCP Evensong, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
6.30 p.m. Farewell to Canon Robin Brown at evensong in the cathedral
Monday 7th December
8.00 p.m. North Buntingford Prayer Group, High Bank, Reed
Tuesday 8th December
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Thursday 10th December
All day Barley VC First School rehearsals in church
6.30 p.m. Barley VC First school Christmas Concert
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Sunday 13th December
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
3.00 p.m. Joint Chapel and Church Carol Service, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. Christingle service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
6.30 p.m. Carol Service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Monday 14th December
Barkway VA First School put staging up in church
Wednesday 16th December
10 a.m. Barkway VA First School end-of-term service, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Thursday 17th December
All day Barkway VA First School rehearsals in church
6.00 for 6.30 p.m. Barkway VA First School Christmas Performance, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
8.00 p.m. Carol Service practice, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Sunday 20th December
9.00 a.m. Parish Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 Parish Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
4.00 p.m. Carol Service, St Andrew’s, Buckland, followed by tea + mince pies
6.00 p.m. Nine Lessons and Carols, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Thursday 24th December
5.00 p.m. Crib Service, St Mary’s, Reed
8.30 p.m. Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
11.30 p.m. Midnight Mass, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Friday 25th December
10.30 a.m. Christmas Holy Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Sunday 27th December
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
Sermon Barley & Barkway 25th October 2009 – Bible Sunday November 4, 2009
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Isaiah 55:1-11, 2 Timothy 3:14-4:5, John 5:36b-end
The Rev’d Sonia Falschi-Ray
“My word… that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and succeed in the thing for which I sent it.” “My word”, the word of God, is a dynamic and performative act. Dynamic, as in a powerful, propelling action of the will of God. And performative, as the act of speaking brings the intention into being. On a human scale that can be like saying “Congratulations!” The utterance of the word is the act of congratulating. On God’s scale he said “Let there be light” and there was light.” The word of God. How do we access the word of God? Well one important way is by reading the Bible. The Bible, as you know, is more like a library than just a book, containing as it does a range of different types of books: history, poetry, prophesy, prayer, biography, parables the use of metaphor and mythology. (By mythology I don’t mean fairy stories or ancient Egyptian and Greek tales of gods and monsters, but of stories which contain important truths of God’s relationship with us and the nature of humankind packaged into accounts which may not be historically factual.) For example I view as myth and parable the story of Adam and Eve and, in the words of Milton[1],
“Of man’s first disobedience, and the fruit
Of that forbidden tree, whose mortal taste
Brought death into the world, and all our woe,
With loss of Eden.” till one greater Man
Restore us, and regain the blissful seat,…….
……Say first–for Heaven hides nothing from thy view,
Nor the deep tract of Hell–say first what cause
Moved our grand parents, in that happy state,
Favoured of Heaven so highly, to fall off
From their Creator, and transgress his will
For one restraint, lords of the World besides.
Who first seduced them to that foul revolt?
Th’ infernal Serpent; he it was whose guile,
Stirred up with envy and revenge, deceived
The mother of mankind, …..
However, whatever genre the books of the Bible are written in, Christians believe that they are all inspired by God. That in them he has revealed himself and revealed the relationship he would like to have with us. Not all of it is an easy read, and some parts, especially in the Old Testament, can offend modern sensibilities. Why does the God seem to be so bloodthirsty? Why do the Israelites have to fight to clear the promised land of its inhabitants and continue to fight to maintain its boarders? Well tackling that could involve an entire sermon series. In part, God is attempting to bind a people together and educate them in his will for all mankind. The diktat of ‘an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, is to bring proportionality into retaliation, rather than escalating violence and having intergenerational blood feuds. Later on Jesus developed that thinking further telling us to love our enemies. However, God always starts with us where we are, drawing us onward to become more like him, if we are willing. The word of God is to an extent codified in the Ten Commandments. Many rules and regulations were added on, some in scripture hopefully inspired by the word of God and some, as Jesus pointed out, rules made merely by men.
Then the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, full of grace and truth. Jesus admonished his critics saying, “You search the scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that testify on my behalf. Yet you refuse to come to me to have life.”[2] Jesus in person took some of the words of God, the Ten Commandments and expanded their meaning, most memorably in the sermon on the mount. “Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets; I have come not to abolish but to fulfil……. You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”[3] He also emphasized the underlying spirit of the law, the principles rather than the technicalities, for example, “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. …….. Blessed are the merciful, for they will receive mercy. ……. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” Jesus made himself very unpopular with the political and religious leaders of his day by combating their legalism which ran contrary to God’s intentions. “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint, dill, and cumin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faith. It is these you ought to have practiced without neglecting the others. You blind guides! You strain out a gnat but swallow a camel!”[4] The scandal of our MP’s expenses falls straight into this category. The purpose of their expense allowance is that they should not be out of pocket by having to maintain a London residence. It was drafted at a time when MP’s were expected to act as their title suggests, ‘honourable’ members of the House of Commons and the ‘noble’ Lords. However, many seem to have operated on the basis of “what can we get away with within the “rules”?” to enhance their life-styles. This got to the stage of some MP’s claiming for imaginary mortgages and one claiming a spare room in her sister’s house was her principal residence, (rather than the large family home in the constituency where spouse and children resided)! When caught out, so many of them just didn’t “get it”. “We operated within the rules”, they complained. The general public may not act all that honourably itself, but it knows a scam when it sees one.
The Bible, the Word of God is to guide us. As the letter to Timothy says, “All scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, so that everyone who belongs to God may be proficient, equipped for every good work.” The Bible is not just an old book. It is inspired by God and contains his living word. It can speak to us personally and the more we read it, the more we will be able to discern God’s voice speaking to us and into our situations, both personally and corporately, as a church, a village community, or even a country. It is often best to have a systematic approach to reading the Bible, using the lectionary will get you though most of it over three years. Alternatively, choosing a theme helped by using Bible notes or a commentary. Or, just starting with a book and, maybe, alternating between the Old and New Testaments. Many lifelong church-going Christians have a sketchy knowledge of the Old Testament and as Jesus said, “If you believed Moses, you would believe me, for he wrote about me. But if you do not believe what he wrote, how will you believe what I say?” By ‘Moses’ Jesus here means the first five books of the Bible, the Torah, which were thought all to have been written by Moses at that time. The Old Testament shows us how God formed a people for his own possession and without it there can be little understanding of salvation history and the importance of what Jesus did on the cross.
There is a, possibly apocryphal, story of a man who wanted spiritual guidance, believing that God would speak to him through the Bible, so he opened it at random. His finger fell on, Mat 27:5 “Judas ‘departed; and he went out and hanged himself” “Oh no the man thought, that can’t be right”, so he tried again, Luke 10:37, “Go and do thou likewise” In despair he thought he’d have one more go, John 13:27 “What you are going to do, do quickly”. So, random verse selection may not be the best way to seek God’s guidance.
However, I will finish with an example of God seeming to speak to me directly through the Bible. I’m sure many of you will be able to offer your own examples. Shortly after I had come to faith on an Alpha course at Holy Trinity Brompton, I was approached by a woman, whom I shall call Clara. She was in my Home Group and was aware that I had had a highly paid job in the City of London. We were numbered about 10, who met weekly to study the Bible, pray together and enjoy each others’ company. Clara suggested she and I have lunch together, during which she explained that she was in a tight financial situation, (she was a free-lance journalist). She then said that God had told her that I would give her £1000 in order to pay a tax demand. Now I can be a bit of a soft touch, often getting my chequebook out as my heart is moved even before the end of the sob-story. I felt nothing. Absolutely nothing. Having listened I left the restaurant table and went to the loo, where I got down on my knees in a very small cubicle. I was troubled, it didn’t feel right and I prayed, “God if this is from you, let me know. Please give me a sense that you have spoken to Clara and you want me to give her the money.” I felt nothing, heard nothing, saw nothing. I returned and regretfully refused. She was pretty put out. The next morning I was still perturbed. Had God spoken to her? Was she prophesying? I turned to the Bible and asked God to speak to me through it and he led me to a passage I don’t believe I had ever read before, 1 Kings Chapter 13. Briefly, a man of God prophesies disaster to the king of Judah, the king hates it but his arm is withered as he tries to strike the Man of God who, on request, prays and the King’s arm is restored. “Then the king said to the man of God, ‘Come home with me and dine, and I will give you a gift.’ But he replies, ’If you give me half your kingdom, I will not go in with you; nor will I dine. For thus I was commanded by the word of the LORD: You shall not eat food, or drink water, or return by the way that you came.’ So he went back another way. Now there lived an old prophet in Bethel, he went after the man of God, and found him sitting under an oak tree. He also invited him home for dinner, but got the same rebuff. Then the old prophet said to him, ‘I also am a prophet as you are, and an angel spoke to me by the word of the LORD: Bring him back with you into your house so that he may eat dine.’ But he was deceiving him. Then the man of God went back with him, and ate and drank but, as they were sitting at the table The LORD spoke though the prophet, ‘Because you have disobeyed the word of the LORD, … your body shall not come to your ancestral tomb.’ Then, as he went away, a lion met him on the road and killed him.” [5] The old prophet had said, ‘An angel spoke to me by the word of the LORD.’ But he was deceiving him. That was what I was given, a deceitful, false prophet. I am not aware of a similar situation begin described anywhere else in the Bible. I felt a lot better after that!
So the Bible is the living word of God and the more we read it the more we will be able to discern God’s voice.
[1] John Milton, Paradise Lost opening stanzas 1667
[2] John 5:39-40
[3] Matthew 5:17, 27-8
[4] Matthew 23:23
[5] 1 Kings 1-24
This week in the Benefice 2nd – 8th November 2009 November 2, 2009
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Monday 2nd November
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
12.30 p.m. Deanery cluster meeting, Great Hormead Rectory
8.00 p.m. All Soul’s Day – Service of Thanksgiving for those who have died, St Mary’s, Reed
Tuesday 3rd November
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Wednesday 4th November
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
7.45 p.m. Growing Together in Christ, Great Hormead Church Room
Thursday 5th November
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary’s, Reed
10.30 a.m. Holy Communion at Margaret House, Barley
Saturday 7th November
9.00 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
10 a.m. -12 noon Save the Children sale, Barley Town House
7.30 p.m. Strictly Come Barley, Town House, Barley
Sunday 8th November
9.00 a.m. Parish Communion with Act of Remembrance, St Mary’s, Reed
10.40 a.m. Remembrance Service, Barley, beginning at War Memorial
10.55 a.m. Remembrance Service, Barkway, beginning at War Memorial
THE COMING MONTH
(Morning Prayer usually takes place each day: Monday and Tuesday in Barkway; Wednesday and Saturday in Barley and Thursday in Reed)
Monday 9th November
12 noon Deanery Chapter with Archdeacon Trevor Jones, Buntingford Church
Tuesday 10th November
Discover Sunday planning meeting, 2 Stallibrass Mews, Barkway
Wednesday 11th November
12.30 Deanery cluster meeting, Great Hormead Rectory
Thursday 12th November
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Friday 13th November
9.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. Book Sale St Mary’s, Reed
Saturday 14th November
9.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. Book Sale St Mary’s, Reed
10.00 a.m. Working Party, Barkway Church
Sunday 15th November
9.00 a.m. Parish Holy Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 a.m. Parish Communion + Baptism of Katie Maddison, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. All-age service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Monday 16th November
8.00 p.m. North Buntingford Prayer Group, Aylwins, Roe Green
Tuesday 17th November.
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Thursday 19th November
8.00 p.m. Deanery Synod, Buntingford church
Saturday 21st November
5.00 p.m. Friends of Barkway Moonlight Market
Sunday 22nd November
9 a.m. Parish Holy Communion, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
10.30 a.m. Parish Communion + Junior Church, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 a.m. BCP Matins, St Mary’s, Reed
Monday 23rd November
6.00 p.m. Barley PCC, venue TBA
Tuesday 24th November
7.15 p.m. Barley VC First School Governors Meeting, School
Wednesday 25th November
North Buntingford Group Council, Barkway Rectory
Thursday 26th November
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Saturday 28th November
10.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. From Here to Eternity – a study day on worship, Cathedral and Abbey Church of St Alban Cost £10.00 more details from Sarah
Sunday 29th November
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion, St Andrew’s, Buckland
2.30 p.m. Baptism of Victoria Stevenson, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. Discover Sunday – Advent, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Tuesday 1st December
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Wednesday 2nd December
7.30 p.m. Barkway VA First School Governors meeting, Flint House, Barkway
Thursday 3rd December
10.30 a.m. Holy Communion at Margaret House
7.45p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Saturday 5th December
11.00 a.m. – 4.00 p.m. Children’s activity day – St Nicholas – St Margaret of Antioch and school, Barley
Friends of Reed Church Christmas Supper
Sunday 6th December
9.00 a.m. Holy Communion (said) St Mary’s, Reed
10.30 a.m. Special St Nicholas service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
11.30 a.m. Christmas Market, Barley Town House
6.00 p.m. BCP Evensong, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
6.30 p.m. Farewell to Canon Robin Brown at evensong in the cathedral
Monday 7th December
8.00 p.m. North Buntingford Prayer Group, High Bank, Reed
Tuesday 8th December
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Thursday 10th December
All day Barley VC First School rehearsals in church
6.30 p.m. Barley VC First school Christmas Concert
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Sunday 13th December
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
3.00 p.m. Joint Chapel and Church Carol Service, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. Christingle service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
6.30 p.m. Carol Service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Monday 14th December
Barkway VA First School put staging up in church
Wednesday 16th December
10 a.m. Barkway VA First School end-of-term service, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Thursday 17th December
All day Barkway VA First School rehearsals in church
6.00 for 6.30 p.m. Barkway VA First School Christmas Performance, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
8.00 p.m. Carol Service practice, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Sunday 20th December
9.00 a.m. Parish Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 Parish Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
4.00 p.m. Carol Service, St Andrew’s, Buckland, followed by tea + mince pies
6.00 p.m. Nine Lessons and Carols, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Thursday 24th December
5.00 p.m. Crib Service, St Mary’s, Reed
8.30 p.m. Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
11.30 p.m. Midnight Mass, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Friday 25th December
10.30 a.m. Christmas Holy Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Sunday 27th December
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
This Week in the Benefice 26th October – 1st November 2009 October 26, 2009
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Monday 26th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Tuesday 27th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
9.00 a.m. Barkway home communions
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Wednesday 28th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
7.45 p.m. Growing Together in Christ, Great Hormead Church Room
Thursday 29th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary’s, Reed
11 a.m. Reed home communion
12 noon NSPCC Annual Luncheon, Barkway Village Hall
Friday 30th October
Saturday 31st October
9.00 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
10 a.m. -12 noon Save the Children sale, Barley Town House
Sunday 1st November
9.00 a.m. Parish Communion (said), St Mary’s, Reed
10.30 a.m. Parish Communion + Baptism of Catherine Wrangham, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
6.00 p.m. BCP Evensong, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
THE COMING MONTH
(Morning Prayer usually takes place each day: Monday and Tuesday in Barkway; Wednesday and Saturday in Barley and Thursday in Reed)
Monday 2nd November
12.30 p.m. Deanery cluster meeting, Great Hormead Rectory
8.00 p.m. All Soul’s Day – Service of Thanksgiving for those who have died, St Mary’s, Reed
Tuesday 3rd November
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Wednesday 4th November
7.45 p.m. Growing Together in Christ, Great Hormead Church Room
Thursday 5th November
10.30 a.m. Holy Communion at Margaret House, Barley
Saturday 7th November
10 a.m. -12 noon Save the Children sale, Barley Town House
7.30 p.m. Strictly Come Barley, Town House, Barley
Sunday 8th November
9.00 a.m. Parish Communion with Act of Remembrance, St Mary’s, Reed
10.40 a.m. Remembrance Service, Barley, beginning at War Memorial
10.55 a.m. Remembrance Service, Barkway, beginning at War Memorial
Monday 9th November
12 noon Deanery Chapter with Archdeacon Trevor Jones, Buntingford Church
Tuesday 10th November
Discover Sunday planning meeting, 2 Stallibrass Mews, Barkway
Wednesday 11th November
12.30 Deanery cluster meeting, Great Hormead Rectory
Thursday 12th November
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Friday 13th November
9.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. Book Sale St Mary’s, Reed
Saturday 14th November
9.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. Book Sale St Mary’s, Reed
10.00 a.m. Working Party, Barkway Church
Sunday 15th November
9.00 a.m. Parish Holy Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 a.m. Parish Communion + Baptism of Katie Maddison, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. All-age service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Monday 16th November
8.00 p.m. North Buntingford Prayer Group, Aylwins, Roe Green
Tuesday 17th November.
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Thursday 19th November
8.00 p.m. Deanery Synod, Buntingford church
Saturday 21st November
5.00 p.m. Friends of Barkway Moonlight Market
Sunday 22nd November
9 a.m. Parish Holy Communion, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
10.30 a.m. Parish Communion + Junior Church, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 a.m. BCP Matins, St Mary’s, Reed
Monday 23rd November
6.00 p.m. Barley PCC, venue TBA
Tuesday 24th November
7.15 p.m. Barley VC First School Governors Meeting, School
Wednesday 25th November
North Buntingford Group Council, Barkway Rectory
Thursday 26th November
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Saturday 28th November
10.00 a.m. – 5.00 p.m. From Here to Eternity – a study day on worship, Cathedral and Abbey Church of St Alban Cost £10.00 more details from Sarah
Sunday 29th November
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion, St Andrew’s, Buckland
2.30 p.m. Baptism of Victoria Stevenson, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. Discover Sunday – Advent, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Tuesday 1st December
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Wednesday 2nd December
7.30 p.m. Barkway VA First School Governors meeting, Flint House, Barkway
Thursday 3rd December
10.30 a.m. Holy Communion at Margaret House
7.45p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Saturday 5th December
11.00 a.m. – 4.00 p.m. Children’s activity day – St Nicholas – St Margaret of Antioch and school, Barley
Friends of Reed Church Christmas Supper
Sunday 6th December
9.00 a.m. Holy Communion (said) St Mary’s, Reed
10.30 a.m. Special St Nicholas service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
11.30 a.m. Christmas Market, Barley Town House
6.00 p.m. BCP Evensong, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
6.30 p.m. Farewell to Canon Robin Brown at evensong in the cathedral
Monday 7th December
8.00 p.m. North Buntingford Prayer Group, High Bank, Reed
Tuesday 8th December
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Thursday 10th December
All day Barley VC First School rehearsals in church
6.30 p.m. Barley VC First school Christmas Concert
7.45 p.m. Carol Service practice, Barkway House, Barkway
Sunday 13th December
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
3.00 p.m. Joint Chapel and Church Carol Service, St Mary’s, Reed
5.00 p.m. Christingle service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
6.30 p.m. Carol Service, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Monday 14th December
Barkway VA First School put staging up in church
Wednesday 16th December
10 a.m. Barkway VA First School end-of-term service, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Thursday 17th December
All day Barkway VA First School rehearsals in church
6.00 for 6.30 p.m. Barkway VA First School Christmas Performance, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
8.00 p.m. Carol Service practice, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Sunday 20th December
9.00 a.m. Parish Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
10.30 Parish Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
4.00 p.m. Carol Service, St Andrew’s, Buckland, followed by tea + mince pies
6.00 p.m. Nine Lessons and Carols, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Thursday 24th December
5.00 p.m. Crib Service, St Mary’s, Reed
8.30 p.m. Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
11.30 p.m. Midnight Mass, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Friday 25th December
10.30 a.m. Christmas Holy Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Sunday 27th December
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion, St Mary’s, Reed
Sermon Barkway, Reed & Barley 18th October 2009 – St Luke October 19, 2009
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Isaiah 35.3-6; 2 Timothy 4.5-17; Luke 10.1-9
The Rev’d Sarah Hillman
Today is St Luke’s Day, when the Church has traditionally focused on the ministry of healing.
The Christian Church has always been associated with healing. We all know that the Gospels are full of stories of Jesus healing the sick. He passes this task on to his disciples, both the 12 and others, as we see from the 70 who were sent out in today’s reading.
In medieval times, monastic communities were usually the prime source of medicine for ordinary people, apart from witches, and as late as the 19th century, surgeons had to seek permission from the Church before they could operate.
Before the Advent of the NHS, there were three types of hospital – private, voluntary and workhouse. Many of the voluntary bodies had Christian connections – now all that is left is probably a chapel, a chaplaincy and sometimes the name – St Mary’s, St Thomas’s, St George’s, St Peter’s, St Michael’s, St Catherine’s and so on.
Back in the time of Jesus medicine was in a very different state from today. There were doctors – Luke was one – but their methods were primitive, and many people went uncured. Jesus’s healings were part of his wider ministry of bringing in the kingdom of God – healing the sick on this earth was a foretaste of the time to come when sickness would be no more.
But today, things are very different. Millions of pounds are spent on curing the sick, researching new medicines and the causes of disease. Modern medicine is truly a miracle, and I firmly believe that God works through our doctors, hospitals and so on.
I also firmly believe that miraculous healings through prayer still occur, but, as in the time of Jesus, not everyone who prays is healed.
This raises difficult questions. Why are some healed and not others? There are various possible answers – not enough faith on the part of the sick person or the ones praying, God chooses not to heal, the person is seen as sinful and therefore not worthy of healing until repentance has occurred, God doesn’t heal directly any more.
And, there is, of course, the answer that I find I have to wrestle with most – I don’t know.
I don’t know why God allows some people to suffer years of pain. I don’t know why children get sick and die. I don’t know why babies die in the womb or at birth. I don’t know why young people with everything to live for are struck down in their prime.
I don’t know why some are born blind or with limbs that don’t do what they should. I don’t know why some people have severe mental disabilities or why others have to live with the torment of mental illness, which seems never to be cured. I just don’t know.
There is so much that modern medicine can do, but there is so much that it can’t yet solve.
Sickness is part of our imperfect world. One way of coping with it is to look to the world beyond – the new heaven and new earth where God will wipe away every tear from our eyes, death and sickness will be no more, pain will be forever banished. That may offer hope that the pain will end – one day – but focussing only on the world to be means that current life passes us by.
Another way in which people survive is by allowing their world to shrink. They become so wrapped up in their suffering that somehow there becomes no room for anything outside – people get pushed away or taken for granted and past interests no longer are important.
I’m well aware that the inability to see beyond oneself is one of the symptoms of a number of mental illnesses, but it is also something into which others can sink too.
And people pray for themselves and for others, and God seems to go silent. Doesn’t God care? Why is God so far from us?
And, of course, those sentiments are nothing new – the words “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” which Jesus uttered on the cross came from Psalm 22.
Illness may seem meaningless but I believe that with God’s help it needn’t be a purely negative thing. God doesn’t desert us when we are sick, even though it may feel like it. When we pray for others and for ourselves, we often pray for God’s healing, for God to make them or us well again. And we should not assume that because the person’s health is not fully restored that God is ignoring us.
Praying for the sick is important. God should be in every corner of our lives, and therefore when we pray it is natural to talk about those for whom we care, and express our wishes that they recover, just as we might do when talking to a friend.
And sometimes God does restore people to physical health – sometimes miraculously and sometimes through the power of modern medicine. But sometimes God doesn’t.
Healing is about more than physical fitness or emotional well-being. True healing is about our whole selves – our bodies, minds and spirits, our physical, emotional and spiritual life. Sometimes when we pray for healing we miss the answers because we’re looking in the wrong place.
There’s a story about two male churchwardens in a parish where a new vicar has just arrived. It’s the first time they’ve had a woman priest, and these two men are a little confused as to how to welcome her. In the past they’ve always taken the vicar fishing for a day. “Will she like fishing?” they wonder.
In an age of equality and not wanting to patronise her, the wardens decide to invite her fishing as they would have done a new male priest. She agrees to go with them.
The day arrives and they get into a boat and sail out to the middle of the lake. After a while of sitting still fishing, the vicar says: “Actually I’m a bit cold. I’m just going to go back to my car and fetch my coat.”
So she gets out of the boat, walks across the water, gets her coat, walks back across the water and climbs back into the boat. “Typical women,” says one of the wardens, “they always forget something.”
So focussed are they on the inadequacies of women that they have quite failed to notice her walking on water. And we’re sometimes a bit like that with our healing. Sometimes we miss what God is doing in our lives because it’s not what we think it ought to be.
My own experience is, as most of you know, of mental ill-health. I’ve suffered depression on and off for about 30 years since I was 12, and I’m still recovering from the bad bout I suffered about 18 months ago.
Recovery is a very up-and-down process. Struggling on when I’m feeling rubbish is not easy; keeping going when all I want to do is stay in bed is hard. It affects my whole self – eating, physical well-being, spiritual life, relationships with others, sleep, mood, stamina, my work and so on and so on.
I would not wish my experiences on anyone. I have prayed many a time for God to heal me. It hasn’t happened. Symptoms can be controlled more or less with drugs, but they don’t cure the disease. And yet, God has been with me and transformed my experiences into something positive and useful.
When I was student I wrote a letter in response to an article about suicide in the university. It was the sort of letter that is often written anonymously. But I thought it was important that people heard from a real person.
As a result of that letter I was able to help someone else who wrote to me at my college because she too was depressed and didn’t know what to do. After our contact, she sought help.
That’s a specific incident, but I also know that I am only a priest because of my experiences. They have enabled me to develop certain gifts and skills – not least empathy and an ability to listen and understand suffering – which would never have happened without what in itself is a horrible and dark place in which to be.
And I know of many others who have developed interests and careers and voluntary agencies relating to a whole host of ailments, who help others, because of their own experiences. And that in its own way is healing. And others find whole new career paths or skills not related to their sickness but the discovery only happens because of it.
God’s healing is about transforming our whole selves. It is about healing from physical disease, but when we see it only as that, we limit God and the concept of well-being. Of course, we are right to pray for healing for others and for ourselves. But let us not be too limited in our vision that we miss God’s answer to our prayers, which may not come in the way that we expect. Perhaps a better prayer would be for God to transform our suffering into his glory.
And when we do experience or witness healing, in whatever form it takes, let us give thanks that God’s light and hope can indeed redeem the darkness and the sadness and the suffering, and bring something good out of the pain and blackness that many face.
Sermon Barley 11th October 2009 – Trinity 18 October 19, 2009
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Amos 5.6-7,10-15; Hebrews 4.12-16; Mark 10.17-31
The Rev’d Sarah Hillman
What is the question you would most like answered? If you met Jesus, what would you ask him?
There are all sorts of questions to which people want to know the answer. One of the most common is why God allows such suffering in the world as there is. A perceived lack of a satisfactory answer to that question leads many people either to deny the existence of God or to accept that there might be a god but not to want to have anything to do with a being who can allow such things to go on.
One of the things that the Church has in recent years been accused of is trying to answer questions that no-one is asking.
Surveys, particularly of young people, have shown that questions of eternal life and salvation are not what they want to know about. Most people have a desire to feel loved, but many people do not feel excited by the prospect of eternal life. This is, of course, at the heart of Christianity – Jesus offers us life. But so, of course, is love. The two cannot really be separated.
And yet if we look around our world at present, the big discussions are about death – can we allow people to die? How do we cope with men and women who facilitate the deaths of others? What should happen to someone who assists in suicide or stays with another while they die but fetches no help? End-of-life issues are prominent in society’s thinking at present.
What hasn’t happened in the debates is any sense of a question of what happens after death.
What is being presented is a clear choice. People either live with suffering until the natural end of their life, or they decide on their own time of death and take their own lives with or without the assistance of others. Life or death. A stark choice.
I’ve not come across any discussion yet about what death means. Does it mean a total end, oblivion, nothing-ness? Or is there some sense that life goes beyond death? And, if it goes beyond death, who will be in heaven and who will be in hell?
All sorts of answers are possible to these questions. They do not appear to be major preoccupations these days. In times past, the threat of hell and damnation kept people in a state of fear; no longer. Nowadays most people have some vague idea that death is not the end, but have no particular sense of what happens next.
All sorts of stories are told in order to ease the pain of separation – Look at that star – that’s Mummy shining down on you; Josephine’s an angel now – God needed more helpers, and so on – even though rationally most people accept that stars are stars and not twinkling humans beyond the grave.
Things were very different in the days of Jesus. Many saw the end of the world as imminent, and people were concerned about where they would end up. To an outsider, the rich young man who approached Jesus would have looked to be a dead cert. for a place in heaven.
First, he was rich. To those looking on, that would have meant a definite candidate for eternal life; to be a rich man was seen as a sign that God had blessed him. And yet, they only had to look back a bit and recall their knowledge of Scripture to know that riches did not necessarily mean acceptance by God.
Look back to today’s passage from Amos, where those who push aside the needy, trample on the poor and tax grain are condemned, though they themselves would have been rich.
Second the young man would have been seen as a good religious Jew. He has been living out the Jewish law: he’s not murdered anyone, nor played around with another’s wife, he’s not stolen or lied or defrauded, and he appears to have a good relationship with his parents. Outsiders would have viewed him as a decent, upright, moral young man.
But let’s look at what Jesus says. If we see which commandments he picks out, they are all about attitudes towards other people. He says nothing about the first commandments which relate to the relationship with God. (An aside – no one seems quite sure why Jesus has turned the command not to covet into one about fraud).
And when we spot that, we come to the heart of this story. The problem for the young man was not in what he did, but more in his attitude to God. Yes – he lived a moral life, as do many people today. But living a moral life wasn’t going to get him into heaven. What was going to do that was his recognition and living out of the first commandments: you shall have no other gods but me.
The man went away grieving. Jesus, in his answer, had hit a sore point. The man was rich; his wealth brought him a comfortable lifestyle. And when it comes to the crunch, he puts his trust in earthly things and not in God. His attitude was one of ownership – this is mine, not of stewardship – this is God’s and I am, caring for it.
He saw his worth in monetary terms. And our society is prone to calculating success in terms of wealth too. Those who are rich are the ones whom people want to emulate.
What many people look to is possessions and building up treasure on earth. I remember once watching a documentary on television, where young men from a large council estate were being interviewed. Most of them were involved in drug-dealing. Why? Because they had aspirations – not to do something with their lives, but to have fast cars.
That’s an extreme example. Those young men looked up to those slightly older than them who had managed to get the sports cars. What do other people in our society aspire to? The number of talent shows such as X-Factor, Britain’s Got Talent, Pop Idol and so on hook into many people’s desire to be a celebrity. If that wasn’t something important for so many, there would be no contestants for these programmes.
The aspirations of every Christian should be to love God with all our hearts, souls, minds and being, and our neighbours as ourselves.
I wonder how many of us can truly say that those are our greatest ambitions.
The rich man went through the motions of a relationship with God, following God’s commandments, but when faced with a decision between trusting in God for his security and in his riches, he chooses the wealth.
None of us know what happened to that young man after he wanders off sadly. Did he continue to ponder eternal life? Did he regret walking away from Jesus? We just don’t know.
He wasn’t the only one, though, who was taken aback by Jesus’s words. The disciples were confused too by what Jesus had said. He was again turning their world upside-down. They had clearly had no doubts that the man in front of Jesus would already be on his way to eternal life.
Surely, they would have thought, Jesus would have commended someone who kept the rules so well.
Jesus has to remind them that salvation is God’s gift not human wages. Rich people did become disciples – Zacchaeus is a good counterpart to the rich young man. Zacchaeus, when faced with the same decision, was able to give away his wealth, because it meant more to him to follow Jesus than to be rich.
We all have things that stop us following God whole heartedly. For some it’s money; for others family or friends, pride or greed. For many it’s embarrassment – people are just to embarrassed to talk about their faith. For vast numbers it’s time. It doesn’t take much to lead us away from God.
So it’s pretty amazing that God keeps on loving us, not giving up on us. But we all face a choice – the one the young man faced, and we all have to make a decision as to how we will act.
None of us can be saved through riches or power or celebrity or pride. They will only prevent us from being real with God. The young man tried to his behind his money. It didn’t work.
If someone came to you and said: “What must I do to inherit eternal life?”, what would you say? I wonder whether Jesus would agree with our answers.
This Week in the Benefice 19th – 25th October 2009 October 19, 2009
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Monday 19th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
8.00 p.m. North Buntingford Prayer Group, Westfields Barley. More information from Sue Jones (848430)
Tuesday 20th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
7.30 p.m. ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
7.30 p.m. Edwinstree School – Marcia McNeil-Botros to be commissioned as a new BRAVE youth worker
Wednesday 21st October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
2.30 p.m. Funeral of Marie Scripps, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
7.45 for 8.00 p.m. – 9.30 p.m. Growing together in Christ, Hormead Church Room
8.00 p.m. St Mary’s Reed. Bishop Christopher of Hertford will take part in a service to give thanks for the recent restoration work.
Thursday 22nd October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary’s, Reed
Friday 23rd October
Saturday 24th October
9.00 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
Sunday 25th October
9.00 a.m. Parish Communion, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
10.30 a.m. Parish Communion, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
THE COMING MONTH
(Morning Prayer usually takes place each day: Monday and Tuesday in Barkway; Wednesday and Saturday in Barley and Thursday in Reed)
Monday 2nd November
8.00 p.m. All Soul’s Day – Service of Thanksgiving for those who have died. St Mary’s, Reed
Saturday 28th November
St Alban’s Abbey – study day on worship Keynote speaker John Bell of the Iona Community. Cost £10.00 more details from Sarah.
This Week in the Benefice 5 – 11th October 2009 October 4, 2009
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Monday 5th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
7.45 p.m. Barkway VA First School full governing body meeting
Tuesday 6th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
Deanery Chapter, The Rectory, Barkway
7.30 ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Wednesday 7th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
7.45 for 8.00 p.m. – 9.30 p.m. Growing together in Christ, Hormead Church Room
Thursday 8th October
8.15 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Mary’s, Reed
Barley Mission Group meeting, Willetts
Friday 9th October
Saturday 10th October
9.00 a.m. Morning Prayer, St Margaret of Antioch, Barlley
10.30 a.m. – 3 p.m. Worship with Children Present training day, St Mary’s, Baldock;
7.30 p.m. Barley Bellringers Quiz, Town House, Barley
Sunday 11th October
10.30 a.m. United Benefice Holy Communion, St Margaret of Antioch, Barley
5.00 p.m. Discover Sunday – Harvest, St Mary Magdalene, Barkway
THE COMING MONTH
(Morning Prayer usually takes place each day: Monday and Tuesday in Barkway; Wednesday and Saturday in Barley and Thursday in Reed)
Monday 12th October
4.00 p.m. Thanksgiving for Marriage service, Barley
Tuesday 13th October
7.30 ALPHA course, 27 Church Lane, Barkway
Wednesday 14th October
7.45 for 8.00 p.m. – 9.30 p.m. Growing together in Christ, Hormead Church Room
Thursday 15th October
Deanery Standing and Pastoral Committee meeting, The Grange, Ardley
Friends of Barkway Church meeting, The Old Post Office, Barkway
Wednesday 21st October
8.00 p.m. St Mary’s Reed. Bishop Christopher of Hertford will take part in a service to give thanks for the recent restoration work.
Saturday 28th November
St Alban’s Abbey – study day on worship Keynote speaker John Bell of the Iona Community. Cost £10.00 more details from Sarah.
Sermon Barkway & Barley 27 September 2009 – Trinity 16 October 4, 2009
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The Rev’d Sonia Falaschi-Ray
God takes sin seriously. He does, he takes it seriously. Jesus in trying to get that point across launches into Semitic hyperbole, “If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off….if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off… if your eye causes you to stumble, tear it out. It’s better to enter life maimed than be thrown into hell.” He particularly picks on those of us who by our words or actions impede others’ path to God. How do we do that? Well it may be by just behaving badly when people know we are a Christian. I’ve found myself in arguments where I have had hurled at me “You’re a priest, you shouldn’t say things like that.” Even though I felt that I had right on my side regarding the argument, I also knew that their comment was correct. Maddening! God is happy for his Spirit to operate through people in ways we may find uncomfortable. The Israelites and Jesus’ disciples complain that those prophesying were ‘in the wrong place’ or ‘not one of us’. Jesus was always doing that, healing on the Sabbath, outwitting scribes in their use of scripture, being claimed as Messiah having emerged from an artisan’s family in a small northern town. (Think plumber from Barnsley perhaps?) Can anything good come out of Nazareth? We must take care not to block people’s reaching out to God just because they don’t do it in ways we find seemly. God cares about this. God cares about sin. A few weeks ago we looked at ‘pride’. If you missed it you can find the text on the Benefice website. I had a request for ‘lust’ from people who are away at the moment, so that will have to wait. Today I thought we might look at anger. Anger is not always sinful and may well be justified. However, the risk we run is that we may start off with justifiable anger at an injustice and then allow it to get a grip of us until we end up feeling quite murderous. Jesus pointed out in the ‘Sermon on the mount’ the continuum between calling someone raca, an “ignorant idiot” and murdering them.
In our Old Testament reading we have the Israelites sick of just having manna to eat, after they had enjoyed a variety of foods while slaves in Egypt. (Apparently manna tasted like fried bread.) God was angry at their ingratitude. Moses was furious at God for having all these complaints dumped on him. Even though God was cross, he sent quails to the camp- but they came at a price, God told Moses to say, “You shall eat meat; for you have wailed in the hearing of the LORD, saying, ‘If only we had meat to eat! Surely it was better for us in Egypt.’ Therefore the LORD will give you meat, and you shall eat…. not only one day, or two days, or five days, or ten days, or twenty days, but for a whole month–until it comes out of your nostrils and becomes loathsome to you–because you have rejected the LORD who is among you, and have wailed before him, saying, ‘Why did we ever leave Egypt?’”
In considering Anger I have been greatly helped by a sermon given by Nicky Gumbel at Holy Trinity Brompton[1]
A while back, The Sunday Times had an article about anger claiming that more than 80 per cent of drivers say they’ve been involved in road-rage incidents. (we will look at one later) 64 per cent of Britons working in an office have had office-rage; 71 per cent of internet users admit to having suffered net-rage; and 50 per cent of us have reacted to computer problems by hitting our PC, hurling parts of it around and screaming abuse at our colleagues.
Rick Warren, a Christian writer, describes four different ways in which people express their anger at work:
1. The maniacs. They are the exploders. These people are walking time bombs – they yell, they curse, they throw things when they get upset or frustrated.
2. The mutes. They’re the silent types. They hold it in and hide their true feelings. They simmer and stew. Selwyn Hughes often said that: ‘Anger is never buried dead. It’s always buried alive’.
3. The martyrs. They are the best at holding pity-parties. Instead of getting angry, they get depressed. What’s wrong with me? But martyrs make everyone else miserable too.
4. The manipulators. They don’t get mad, they get even. They retaliate in an underhand way. They use sarcasm and office politics to express their anger.
When I read this I got quite worried, the only one I am not is a mute!
Anger is an emotion, a natural passion. Physically, it causes many changes in our bodies: adrenalin flows, hunger disappears, we have a clearer, more focused vision, and an increased supply of testosterone. So is all anger wrong? Is there such a thing as constructive anger? How are we to handle anger? Jesus said “If you are angry with a brother or sister [without cause], you will be liable to judgment;” Throughout the Bible God himself gets angry. It’s his personal reaction against sin. It’s part of his love. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that, ‘God is wrath’. It says, ‘God is love’. His anger is an expression of his love. Because he loves us, his creation, he gets angry on behalf of the victims, the poor, the downtrodden. C. S. Lewis says such anger is, ‘the fluid that love bleeds when you cut it’. Jesus himself got angry. He was indignant when he saw children not being treated properly. He was angry when religious rulers tried to stop people from being healed for legalistic reasons. He was angry when he saw a place that had been built for worship being used to make money. So anger in itself is not wrong. It’s not necessarily contrary to love. It’s actually an expression of love, and sometimes, in the face of some of the appalling things that we read about in our newspapers, if we didn’t get angry, it would show a lack of humanity, a lack of compassion, a lack of love. But, like most sins, anger can take something that’s good, which is a proper hatred of evil and injustice, and twist it into something destructive.
There’s a difference, isn’t there, between righteous and unrighteous anger? One of the problems with righteous anger is that it easily gets turned into self-righteous arrogance that tolerates no difference of opinion or opposition. There’s constructive and there’s destructive anger. When Animal Rights protestors turn to physically attacking researchers and their property, that has to be a corruption of righteous anger. If our anger is channelled in the right direction, like Wilberforce’s, or Lord Shaftsbury’s, into transforming society, that’s a wonderful thing – but we have to be careful that it’s focused not on love of self, but on love of others. As you look at Jesus’ anger, it was always against sin and injustice towards others. I think it is easy to justify our own anger and condemn the anger in others. An article in the New Statesman said: ‘You are annoyed; he is making a fuss about nothing; I am righteously indignant.’ In our Gospel reading, Jesus is concerned about hampering others’ access to God by our behaviour, and uncontrolled anger can do that. So what should we do when angry?
Press the ‘pause’ button
One of the things that it often says in the Bible about God is that God is slow to anger. Proverbs says, ‘The fool is quick-tempered’. And the quick-tempered do foolish things.’ Don’t I know it? As someone said, ‘We should learn the lesson from the Space Shuttle: Always count down before blasting off.’ This is one of the dangers of email. Email allows us to respond very quickly. My grandfather, a solicitor, told me, ‘When angry, write a letter, write it all out and sleep on it. Next morning, re-read it and then tear it up.’ The thing about pressing the ‘pause’ button is that it gives time to reflect. It gives time to talk, even to get advice. Don’t push the anger down – talk it out. We should ask ourselves, ‘What is the loving response to this?’
Watch the words
Jesus says: ‘Anyone who yells “you ignorant idiot”, will be in danger of the fire of hell.’ I once in the heat of the moment called a friend a ‘silly woman’. It destroyed our friendship for years. Jesus is saying that words are very powerful and they can be very damaging. Proverbs 15 v 1 says, ‘A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.’
Master the mind
Jesus said, ‘You have heard that it was said to people long ago, “Do not murder” and “Anyone who murders will subject to judgment”, but I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment.’ If we don’t control what we think, certain patterns of thought can become habitual, which means they become part of who we are. Then, under stress, what we really think is liable to pop out. Sir Keith Joseph said of Margaret Thatcher. “When she speaks without thinking, she says what she thinks.” We should try to change our attitude to things that irritate us in people, rather than rehearsing what we would like to say, so each time an evil thought slips into our mind, instead of revelling in it and imagining a scenario where we get the better of this person, we should turn to God and ask him to help us love them. This particular piece of advice I probably need to heed more than most.
Consider the cost
On the 26th September 2009, Simon de Bruxelles of The Times reported, “A father has been jailed for 18 months over the death of his stepdaughter in a high-speed crash as he gave her a lift. Edward Goddard, 41, was driving at up to 110mph because he was annoyed at being called at 1am to collect Kaylee Goddard, 20, and her boyfriend from a nightclub in Abertillery, Gwent.
A court was told that he lost control of his car while trying to scare them by driving at a concrete bollard. The car hit the bollard and rolled several times before coming to rest upside down.
Miss Goddard, mother of two, [aged 4 and 2] was not wearing a seatbelt and died from head injuries. Edward Goddard spent 12 days in a coma with head and spinal injuries and suffered permanent brain damage. Miss Goddard’s partner Luke Grey, 23 and his bother Mark escaped with minor injuries. Consider the cost.
Jesus says anger is the first step on a road to hatred, murder, prison, even hell… and the only way to deal with it is quickly and thoroughly. Pause before reacting, watch the words you use and in the meantime change your attitude while considering the cost of anger.
Pursue peace
Jesus urges us not to get involved in disputes. He gives two instances. I want to take the one concerning our attitude to those outside the church first: Jesus said,’ Settle matters quickly with your adversary who is taking you to court. Do it while you’re still together on the way, or he may hand you over to the judge and the judge may hand you over to the officer, and you may be thrown into prison. I tell you the truth, you will not get out until you’ve paid the last penny.’ Jesus says, if possible, avoid legal action. Any lawyer will tell you that in so many cases both parties get unnecessarily hurt. Going to court is usually not a great idea.
And then, in terms of disputes inside the church: ‘Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them, then come and offer your gift.’ Be reconciled. This applies within the church; between churches; between denominations. We have to be reconciled to one another. We may not always agree and indeed we may have to agree to differ on matters. But we should try to be peacemakers. Of course, it’s not always possible, but St Paul says: ‘If it’s possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone’. We all fall short, but it is possible to be different. It’s possible for there to be this alternative community where, instead of anger, there is acceptance, forgiveness, love, graciousness, goodness. This is the society that Jesus advocates. How is it possible? It’s possible because of the cross, because we’ve received forgiveness and we’re able to give forgiveness. It’s possible because of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit fills us with God’s love for us and love for others. However, we are all still work in progress.
[1] 17.6.2007