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Sonia Falaschi-Ray’s article in the July Diary June 14, 2018

Posted by nicholastufton in The Diary Monthly letter.
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“The truth is rarely pure and never simple.” Oscar Wilde

In the aftermath of a man-made disaster, we tend to crave definitive explanations. How did it happen? Who was to blame? How can we prevent it happening again? Certainty of cause and effect. Clarity regarding culpability. Punishment of any wrongdoing. All of which, hopefully, will lead to closure.

Unfortunately, clear-cut reasons and solutions are often not available, as disasters tend to have multiple contributory causes. The disastrous fire at Grenfell Tower, which cost 72 lives, injuries, trauma and homelessness, has been much in the news as its official inquiry unfolds. The teams of lawyers representing, amongst others, the local authority, building advisors, cladding manufacturers, refurbishment consultants, the Fire Service and, not least, the residents, demonstrate how complex it will be to unravel contributory factors and levels of responsibility. Clarity regarding every aspect is unlikely. Doubts will remain. The truth will have blurred edges, however much people crave certainty.

This is an example writ large of the tensions between truth, doubt and certainty which we all encounter in our lives. Proof of truth can be hard to come by. You may know through feelings and experience that your parent, spouse or child loves you. However, you cannot prove that to me, as I could always offer an alternative, expedient explanation for whatever you describe that they have said or done. But you know. It’s true for you; mostly.

Christian faith is like that. I know through my feelings and experience that God loves me. Jesus said he was, ‘the way, the truth and the life’ and, most of the time, I know that to be the case. You might point out that what I put forward as evidence could have an alternative explanation. However, the consistency of my experiences reinforces my level of certainty.

Why should we believe in a God who loves us unconditionally? It adds an entirely new dimension to life, enriching the fullness of it. It is like adding a sixth sense. People who are blind, or deaf have a limited experience of the world. Life without engaging with God is similarly limiting its potential richness.

Many blessings

Sonia  07747 844265