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Sonia’s article in the September Diary September 1, 2018

Posted by nicholastufton in The Diary Monthly letter.
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Wisdom and Tears

None of us looks forward to life’s difficulties, though we know they must surely come. Some arrive with a bang. No warning at all. A devastating shift in your life. Bereavement, loss of job or hopes or home. Others, as if with a whimper. Long-drawn-out stressful events. Maybe illness, a grindingly hard or boring job, perhaps family or financial worries. All these take their toll and can prompt tears. We would all ideally like to avoid these experiences, yet they are not without merit even though it is hard, if not impossible, to appreciate that at the time. Trials help build depth of character, resilience and, hopefully, wisdom. Wisdom to be better equipped with good judgement regarding how to react when the next one of life’s blows hits. Wisdom to put things into perspective and perhaps to help others do the same with their life’s rough patches.

Ancient peoples had the idea that human beings are made of wisdom and tears. Early Christians developed that concept with wisdom being the image of God in which we are made, and tears our failure fully to reflect the divine. Wisdom, in part, is the knowledge of good and evil. To an extent it is inherent. Young children have a highly-developed sense of what is ‘fair’ (as do dogs, as experiments have shown). However, we are corrupted by selfishness, greed and a lust for power. Societies all struggle with attempting to maintain a just balance for their citizens and it requires great wisdom from our leaders to get this right. Unfortunately…

The Bible has a lot to say about tears and wisdom. The wisdom of God, who invites all to know her, is perceived as feminine; I suspect not merely because the words in Hebrew and Greek happen to be of the feminine gender. King Solomon, when invited by God to ask for whatever he wanted, prayed for sound judgement and wisdom to rule his people Israel.

Many Proverbs regarding wisdom are along the lines of, ‘The fear [respect] of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, but fools despise knowledge and instruction.’

I’ll finish with part of Psalm 126:

May those who sow in tears, reap with shouts of joy.

Those who go out weeping, bearing the seed for sowing,

shall come home with shouts of joy, carrying their sheaves.

Many blessings, Sonia (07747 844265)